potentially hot take idk, lewd I guess 

don't you think it's kinda fucked that people have genital preferences? In my experience, if I'm attracted to someone then I'll be fine with their bits, and I honestly can't fathom anyone not working that way. How the fuck can a cis lesbian be deeply attracted to a trans lesbian, find out that she has a dick, and have that attraction be cancelled out? It just doesn't work in my head. How does anybody interact with romance and sexuality that way

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Furthermore I see people all the fucking time on r/actuallesbians going "hey it's great that you have a dick and stuff and you ARE a woman, but also dicks are gross and I'd never date or fuck anyone like you"

How do you think they'd react to a transbian who only likes girldick. Do you think that would fuck with them? Idk im just trying to think up a scenario that would let them viscerally understand how it feels to be non-op on that subreddit

potentially hot take idk, lewd I guess, terf bullshit 

I think this is a problem that will only be solved in a post scarcity transhumanist future with hot-swappable genitals. I also don't think genital preference exists, I think it's just an excuse for cis lesbians to not confront their implicit transphobia, but maybe I'm being a vindictive piece of shit. Though this isn't about anything personal to me, to be clear

potentially hot take idk, lewd I guess, terf bullshit 

here's a good way of thinking about this, I think:

"I won't fuck you because you have a dick"

"I won't fuck you because you have dark skin"

there is no meaningful difference between these statements. Humans are attracted to physical characteristics, and these are two of them, and neither is a good reason to not fuck somebody, but you're obviously not going to *make* someone fuck you even if their reason for not wanting to is shitty, are you

potentially hot take idk, lewd I guess, terf bullshit 

what im saying is, we shouldnt treat genital preference as an immutable orientation, and furthermore sexual orientation isn't immutable either, or even concrete! Most people are not strictly attracted to one gender or the other; they're attracted to characteristics that happen to correspond closely to gender. This is all very fluid

ok anyways, sorry this got so intense, im just mad at terfs (and biphobes and other forms of shitty cis lesbian)

potentially hot take idk, lewd I guess, terf bullshit 

@stella Relatedly, I wonder what TERFs make of all the “straight men invading lesbian spaces” who end up dating each other

racism re: potentially hot take idk, lewd I guess, terf bullshit 

@stella i've seen genital preference - and, in general, "preferring" not to date trans people - compared to having a "racial preference" so many times

as though the reader is supposed to think "racial preferences" are an acceptable thing to have??

like, no. they aren't. they're racist as fuck, what are you doing

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