I sorta mysticised the idea of 3 years on HRT, not like it was the moment something magically changes, just that it seemed like at that point people always seem to be pretty passing and looking like I wanted to. anyway I'm halfway there now.
question, do I kick a hornets nest and go looking for a not-on-the-internet apparently "gender concerned" quaker group just to see if it A)exists and B)is as much of a cesspool as I imagine it is