Fuck I've got such a headache. Only slept 5 hours cause I had to have a difficult conversation with my (former) crush.
Turns out she wasn't picking up what I was laying down, despite my being flirty and lewd and saying I had a crush.
@IngaLovinde @julialuna @Elizabeth once a girl invited me for a weekend over at her place, took me to browse vibrators at a sex shop, told me to sleep in her bed when the party got late, then later lay down close enough to me that I could feel her breathing on my face.
I still couldn't believe she could possibly be interested in me.
("this is just how girls express friendship right")
But seriously, the idea is that people can tell the bot if they're into someone; and the bot will keep this secret, but if two people are into each other, the bot will notify them both about that.
So it's just a zero-risk way to check if your feelings are mutual, without any fear of being seen as creepy or inappropriate if the feelings are not mutual (because nobody will know about it in that case).
(plus some additional features for polyam context)
@Elizabeth @elilla @julialuna @oxytocin OK I made it public! https://embracing.space/@IngaLovinde/105425002163297401
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