Gatekeeping bullshit
God I'm so emotionally drained after talking to a gold star lesbian last night who was like. "Folks talk about you and are offended that you use the handle LipstickLizbian."
Gatekeeping bullshit
I think her point was that because I play a bi character in a video game and am sexuality attracted to some men (the femme ones) I am not allowed to be a lesbian.
And I'm just like "uhhhhhhhhhhhhh"
Gatekeeping bullshit
What fucking gold star bullshit.
I love that I get it on both ends though. If I say I'm bi or pan, cis het guys slide into my DMs and say I'm just a dyke because I won't date any masculine cishet men.
If I say I'm gayyyyy, lesbians slide into my DMs and be like because you like femme presenting men and enbies you're not a real lesbian.
I hope the two groups meet and hash out my sexuality for me because I'm very tired of being defined by other folks standards.
Gatekeeping bullshit
@Elizabeth big eyerolls to them
Gatekeeping bullshit
Me over here with all of my trans gal and non binary partners being like. "Uhhhhhhhhhhhh"