Asherah @Ajes@girlcock.club

I am a "real" person in the same sense as gender as a social construct is "real" - through my deleterious effects on people's lives

Reminder that this is what my laptop looks like and every time I'm in a meeting I force some middle aged business manguy to look at it for hours.

where is my bambj lesbian porn

how do you make a movie about the hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy starring martin freeman, mos def, zooey deschanel and sam rockwell but it sucks

i guess by cutting out all the punchlines and making it a wacky space adventure

best thing i've ever heard about labels: "as any cat will tell you, putting yourself in a box is completely different from someone else putting you in a box"

shopping for clothes while trans is just oscillating between gender euphoria and dysphoria at breakneck speeds

im sleepy and i *will* lie on top of you

good groundwork:

don't teach your kid obedience to authority. teach your kid to question you, and treat them like you value their developing reasoning skills. admit when you are wrong. regularly apologize to your child when you are wrong. you can't teach a kid that cops aren't good if you act like a cop.

my kid was more distraught by a show she likes saying something factually incorrect, and by the existence of rules that hurt people, than by the new knowledge that cops aren't inherently good. i interpret this as her not having absorbed pro-cop propaganda.

i'm glad that she never has to unlearn "cops are good and only punish Bad People."

i told my kid that a rule can be bad, and that a rule is bad if it causes you to hurt people. the example of a bad rule i gave was it being illegal in some places to give food to houseless people.

i said that being arrested doesn't mean that you've done something bad, and it typically means that you've broken a rule. so i told her that the job of police is to arrest and punish people who have broken a rule, even if the rule is one that hurts people.

tonight i explained to my 3 year old why "the police arrest Bad People" (a sentence uttered in one episode of a toddler show she watches) is incorrect in an age-appropriate way.

i feel immense relief about this because i can't maintain my integrity if i allow my kid to develop the idea that cops and rules are inherently good.

you ever just look at yourself in the mirror and go wow im girls?

a buny sub who, when collared, says "hippity hoppity now I'm your property"

when in rome* do as the romans do**

*england
**piss on thatcher's grave